I was out at a restaurant having drinks with the girls when a couple walked in and headed straight to the counter. From every indication they were a couple, husband was carrying their little one in his arms and wife had the back pack.
Husband was so handsome, good body build, muscles in all the right places, six packs popping, dress sense on fleek, and he had one of those super model looks. But His wifey? She was beautiful too, but lets just say they both are in different worlds based on physical appearance. It would be fair to say that she was not his type at all, not the kind of wife such a handsome super model man would have imagined getting married to.
I thought I was the only one who noticed the couple’s opposites. Until a friend leaned over to me and said, “wait, can’t we have it all?”
Pointing to the couple having their order taken he said to me, “take for instance that couple over there, look, that lady is no match for that guy, we know, but what makes a man decide to choose a partner and say this is the person I want to spend the rest of my life with, even when that person doesn’t fit into the kind of spouse he has been dreaming to marry?”
I looked at him. And the only thing I could say was…. “PEACE”
Peace and hapiness
No amount of sexy can give a man peace at home, this one is a tested fact. Happiness is the ultimate gift of marriage. I’m telling you guys, happiness. You may not fully understand this until you cannot come back home to a wife who has got the big bombom you always been dreaming to marry.
I have been on this table before; CAN WE NOT HAVE IT ALL?
Some few years ago this was my prayer point on a regular, Lord I want it all. Fully packaged, back and front, red lips, green hair, blue toe nail polish, everything plus the spice of it all; wrapped in the spiritual. Until God said to me on time in prayer; ” YES you can have it all, this is my wish for you, but what if having it all is not the best for you?”
Hello Brothers with a speck,
Cc: Hello sisters sitting on this table too,
What is having it all is not the best for you?
I spent so much of my time and energy praying with a specification in mind, I didn’t realise that the ‘ALL’ I have been praying for was right in front of me, friend-zoned.
Yes you can have it all, just ask God for it. She may not come with all the big boobs and round buttocks that you have been dreaming about, but she will come with the capacity to do all that a big boobs and buttocks can do, even more. He may not be that fly super model husband that you have been waiting for, but he will be the perfect super model for you.
Awwwwwww, today I have it Allllllll. The ALL that is best for me, the ALL that gives me peace.
I’m 25 years of age and live in Kampala – Uganda.
I’m a qualified communication strategist, freelance writer, volleyball and handball player. Friendly and honest person and l value and respect others, but above all l love God.
